My kids no longer depend on me for wiping noses or doing
their laundry. Why am I still a
stay-at-home-mom?
For some women, working full-time is not a choice. Or, it’s a choice to stay sane. For me, full-time work and being a mom is not an option. My decision to “stay home” isn't about making a statement. It comes from an
acceptance of my workaholic personality, knowing my marriage, and a commitment I made
14 years ago.
While working, I traveled, made money, advanced. Pressures
and long hours dominated. I loved it -using my expertise and degree… I put my
career above all.
There are external (and internal) pressures to
jump back in the fray. Tempting? Yes! However, 3-5 pm is magical. They climb into the
car; spotlight on each one, and tell me everything. They know I am listening. They know I’m there. I’m not ready to give that
up.
By 6 pm, their hard drive is wiped and reset for the next day.
I’m doing what I said I would; suspending my life while witnessing
theirs.
That's awesome! But I would not say 3-5 pm, I would say, 3-9 pm! You give the impression that you are only with your kids for 2 hours a day. Also when I was a teacher, I was preparing 'round the clock. I wonder how I will go back and give the children the attention they need a the same time.
ReplyDeleteYes, I know what you mean. My job was not limited to certain hours of the day. It was around the clock, on call for any emergencies (as it is for parenting!).
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